Dating older someone
You'll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above.Next thing you know, he's your closest friend as well as your boyfriend — which creates a co-dependent dynamic that's bad for any relationship.8.
However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old.2.It's not super-sweet and romantic of him when he buys you beer and/or gets you a fake.If you're an inexperienced drinker who feels it after 2 bottles of Mike's Hard, that benefits 3.Among the biggest reasons that he likes you is because you're young.Yes, he might be into you because you like the same bands and you act "mature for your age." (Has he ever told you that you have "an old soul?
" Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first.
Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit...
Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.
And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt.
Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end.5.
There's probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships.